Treasure after lost? Success after failure?

Thought of these phrases today.
Treasure after lost. Success after failure.

People only learn to treasure things when they have lost them. Why? Because they are so used to the things they have and the wonderful lives that they lead. This is what happen in life.

Only after a failure, there is success. Why? Because they learn from their mistakes they made in the failure or is it because of the failure then they realise the importance of success to them...

Should I Stay

Watched chemistry repeat telecast and heard this song. It's not a new song but it brought back some memories of the past...

Should I Stay
By Dreamz FM

Had a drive
Driven by your love
But when you messed around
I lost the drive I found

Thought you needed
Needed someone true
But you changed your mind
Or had I failed you?

Wish you'd been
Careful with my heart
But you tore it apart
And broke an angel's heart

The kiss was true
Has to end somehow
But I am livin' proof of what love is about

It's hard holding you
Loving you, losing you
It's sad to be true
And be fooled by you
I don't know (I don't know)
I gotta know
Should I stay or should I go?

You played me on
Played me like a clown
But I feel for you
Eventhough I'm down

My heart is heavy
Heavy like a rock
But I am so amused
You're still in my thoughts

It's hard holding you
Loving you, losing you
It's sad to be true
And be fooled by you
I don't know (I don't know)
I gotta know
Should I stay or should I go?

Oooohh...should I stay?
Should I go?
It's hard holding you
Loving you, losing you
It's sad to be true
And be fooled by you

I don't know (I don't know)
I wanna know
Should I stay or should I...?

This time its done
It'll never feel the same
But we had some good times
Guess it's sad just the same

I guess the truth
Doesn't matter somehow
But you were livin' proof of what love is about...

Things Happen For A Reason.

What is fate? Is it something that god plans for us or is it just an explanation for things that we can't explain? The problem is why do we even exist here, in this world? When we are dead, everything is nothing and nothing is everything. So what happen to you when you sleep? You don't know! That's the point. When we don't have a mind to think, we are empty.
Now lets think back. When we are dead, it is the same as when you are sleeping, you are nobody. I find it very scary to not have a mind to think.

But now here we are. We have a good 40 to 50 years to come but who knows what will happen. However, though we don't know what will happen, there is one thing that I'm sure of, THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON.

The place where we are born, the kind of life that we live in, the type of people we become, all these happen for a reason. We are who we are. Nobody on this earth has the same fingerprint.
There are 4 to 6 billion of people in this world and we only meet less than half of the people in our whole lifetime. Why? Why do we meet these people? How are they special to us? Do they even know that they left their footstep in my life? This is incredible. We should treasure all those who love us, been kind to us or even mean to us.

This is life.

Bless the broken road

A nice country song. Smooth, slow, sweet and relaxing.

Bless the Broken Road
by Rascal Flatts

I set out on a narrow way many years ago
Hoping I would find true love along the broken road
But I got lost a time or two
Wiped my brow and kept pushing through
I couldn't see how every sign pointed straight to you

Chorus:
Every long lost dream led me to where you are
Others who broke my heart they were like northern stars
Pointing me on my way into your loving arms
This much I know is true
That God blessed the broken road
That led me straight to you

I think about the years I spent just passing through
I'd like to have the time I lost and give it back to you
But you just smile and take my hand
You've been there you understand
It's all part of a grander plan that is coming true

Chorus:
Every long lost dream led me to where you are
Others who broke my heart they were like northern stars
Pointing me on my way into your loving arms
This much I know is true
That God blessed the broken road
That led me straight to you
Now I’m just rollin’ home into my lover's arms
This much I know is true
That God blessed the broken road that led me straight to you

Strong feelings

I realise I haven't been updating my blog recently apart from changing the title...
This is because I haven't got any strong feelings to write a post. My emotion has been quite "well-controlled" these days. I think that I have put down a lot of things and grown up a lot. There are many things in the world that keep us going but we must go on on our own someday. So, do not get too tight up or addicted to anything. It is good to be free.

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